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My wife has been following an internet "relationship" coach for a small time. She told me recently that she wanted to invest in herself. In this program to help her "soften" She said it would cost a bit of money and that's why she was afraid to bring it up to me. Without even thinking much of it, and appreciating the vulnerability that she was showing, I just said "ok, love, I support you" I didn't delve much further into it. A few days later as Im doing our finances I discover a 6700$ charge and I was incredibly shocked. Upon seeing it I spent the next few hours doing investigative work to figure out what it was for and then who created the program. Upon my investigation I discovered many disgusting things that have been used against my wife to get her to go behind my back with such an immense financial purchase. He used emotional manipulation, high pressure sales tactics, and grooming to get my wife to sign a contract behind my back that houses no protections for the consumer(including a no refund/no chargeback clause and a legal matters only resolved in ontario courts piece) The contract holds a lot of fear based language for anyone who might disagree or change their mind upon seeing the actual program. I have a multitude of emails and facebook messages to provide as proof as well as the contract. This man has now positioned himself between me and my wife in a multitude of ways and has caused severe damage to our relationship. I write with concern for all the women that this man and his group prey upon. I also write in concern for any man that should come u[p against this cretin. Everything that is good in our relationship he attempts to take ownership of. It is truly nightmarish. I uploaded the contract and redacted private info. I will also put in this text the initial discussion between the two that I believe outlines the predatory nature of this man and his company. I can provide a psych evaluation of the rhetoric that exists in his emails as well as his content online. He seems to shame women into thinking they are broken and thats the reason their relationship is broken or they dont have one. Then he says he has all the answers. This is the initial conversation between my wife and what I assume to be Zak Roedde " Hi Zak Roedde, A new event has been scheduled. Event Type: DREAM RELATIONSHIP DISCOVERY CALL Invitee: {REDACTED} Invitee Email: {REDACTED} Text Reminder Number: {REDACTED} Event Date/Time: 13:30 - Friday, 7 November 2025 (Eastern Time - US & Canada) Description: Apply to speak with me 1-1, where we will: * Get you crystal clear on your vision for your dream relationship * Identify the specific obstacles that have gotten in your way of being able to experience this. * Get you aware and honest about the very real consequences if things continue this way. * Diagnose a solution with you to resolve this and point you in that direction, whatever it may be. IF, that is our academy, then make sure you are going to be fully committed in every way for yourself before we commit to you. Location: This is a Zoom web conference. Attendees can join this meeting from a computer, tablet or smartphone. https://us02web.zoom.us/j/83638673278?pwd=xn2Nbqd4RjQrTr8UGdF3zSbfwymZWo.1 Password: 695561 One tap mobile: +1 309 205 3325,,83638673278# +1 312 626 6799,,83638673278# They can also dial in using a phone. US: +1 309 205 3325, +1 312 626 6799, +1 646 931 3860, +1 929 436 2866, +1 301 715 8592, +1 305 224 1968, +1 507 473 4847, +1 564 217 2000, +1 669 444 9171, +1 669 900 6833, +16892781000, +1 719 359 4580, +1 253 205 0468, +1 253 215 8782, +1 346 248 7799, +1 360 209 5623, +1 386 347 5053 Meeting ID: 836-386-73278 Invitee Time Zone: Hawaii Time Questions: How do you know about my work? “I follow you on facebook I'm in your free group” The first 30min of the call is to assess your love life and give you understanding of why you don't have what you want and how to change that. There is an additional 60 minutes booked in case you want our help creating your dream relationship. “I understand. I will make sure I have the full 90 minutes available if I decide you can help me transform my love life.” Tell me what your biggest problems are that you want to shift in your love life, and what do you want your current or future relationship to look like when these problems are solved. “My husband says he’s very devoted to me but I feel afraid to share my feelings or disagree with him. I’ve tried being vulnerable, expressing my desires, my feelings, my need for safety and security, and he usually tells me there’s no problem and there’s nothing wrong and I need to quit living in fear, start respecting and supporting him, and lean into trust. My fear is that there’s no solid foundation to lean into so it doesnt feel safe to me.” Tell me if you are ready immediately to step into a solution if you KNEW it could give you your dream relationship, or are you window shopping for next week / month / year. “ I'm not ready now and need to get my finances or life in order first” If you are in a relationship do you need your partner's permission or money to invest in yourself? “ No I can make my own financial decisions” Do you have the financial means to invest in a love-life transforming coaching solution that will require a multi-hundred dollar a month payment plan? “Yes... depending on how many multi-hundreds per month we are talking about.” Is there anything you are concerned about that might stop you from investing in a high-end coaching solution. “Monthly payments” Tell me any fears or resistance to this application, or to talking on the call with me. “Fear of being manipulated, fear of going into debt, fear of being hurt / judged, fear of the solution not working, fear of giving up, fear of being too ‘broken’, I do have a fear of being judged. Previously my husband hasn’t been very open to coaching programs and books and podcasts I gravitate to so I am a little afraid he will dismiss this as another “quackery” I fell for (this is what he called NVC by Marshall Rosenberg)” After your call is booked, you will be redirected to a page to watch a 40 minute video to help you understand how to create the relationship of your dreams. Do you PROMISE to watch it before our call? “Yes. I will watch it now.” Do you PROMISE to show up on time for the call, or cancel it 24 hours in advance so that you do not waste my time and take up a time spot that someone else could have used? “Yes I promise" Her answers are in quotations. I believe that this man has gotten her to sign a contract under undue influence and I am fighting for my marriage. She has just canceled the chargeback as this man threatened to take us to court after I told him we wanted a refund immediately. Which he refused. The evening blew up and my wife was leaving me. This man was whom she decided to reach out to for emotional safety. He answered and responded as such. “Excellent. Fantastic, Natasha. If you have any other big issues that happen with your husband in the next week, tell me. Normally, I don’t keep my line open — it’s usually handled by my team. But because this is a rather serious issue, I want to make sure you’re properly taken care of and have the support you need, especially in regards to feeling your feelings. So do not hesitate to reach out to me if you need it, okay?” He is creating a serious crater in my relationship all to enrich himself via selling psuedo-science and old idioms under a new package. Even me writing this and collecting the evidence is putting my relationship at risk. But, I feel that I have been attacked and bamboozled in the worst way.... and I dont want this happening to anyone else.