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Healthy and Active

Phone: (714) 847-9292 View Additional Phone Numbers 15251 Pipeline Ln, Huntington Beach, CA 92649 View Additional Web Addresses


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This company offers adult novelty items.

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  • Failure to respond to 1 complaint filed against business

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Customer Complaints Summary Read complaint details

7 complaints closed with BBB in last 3 years | 6 closed in last 12 months
Complaint Type Total Closed Complaints
Advertising/Sales Issues 2
Billing/Collection Issues 0
Delivery Issues 1
Guarantee/Warranty Issues 0
Problems with Product/Service 4
Total Closed Complaints 7

Customer Reviews Summary Read customer reviews

0 Customer Reviews on Healthy and Active
Customer Experience Total Customer Reviews
Positive Experience 0
Neutral Experience 0
Negative Experience 0
Total Customer Reviews 0

Additional Information

BBB file opened: July 30, 2013 Business started: 11/10/2003 in CA Business incorporated: 11/10/2003 in MD
Type of Entity

Limited Liability Company (LLC)

Business Management
Mr. Ari Suss, Chief Executive Officer Miss. Kelly Allen, Vice President
Contact Information
Principal: Mr. Ari Suss, Chief Executive Officer
Number of Employees


Business Category

Adult Novelties Internet Shopping Adult Entertainment

Refund and Exchange Policy
We return or exchange for STORE CREDIT only, please order carefully.

Note: XR, LLC makes no warranty, expressed or implied, as to the safety of any of our products. All of our products are sold as novelties only. Furthermore, we accept no responsibility for injuries sustained while using our products. The purchaser assumes all risk and liability of use for all our products.

To ensure the safety and health of our customers we do not accept returns or exchanges on items that can constitute a health risk or any item that comes into contact with ANY bodily fluid (saliva, semen, urine, blood, et al). Once these items leave our warehouse, we consider them to be used and non-resalable.

These items include (but we are NOT limited to):

ANY dildo or vibrator.
ANY enema kits.
ANY sound set.
ANY item that breaks the surface of the skin.
ANY item that is inserted into the penis, vagina or anus.
ANY gag/dildo combination.
ANY mouthgag.
ANY chastity device.

All products are warranted by us for 30 days from the invoice date. If any product is found DEFECTIVE within that 30 day period, please contact us for an exchange. We will exchange ANY defective item for that same item only.
We will be glad to exchange NON-DEFECTIVE items that do not constitute a health risk for 30 days from the invoice date. All NON-DEFECTIVE returns will be issued Store Credit for the amount of the item.
The customer is responsible for the cost of all shipping charges; for defective items, XR will cover the shipping cost of the replacement item to the customer only.
The customer may be charged a return services fee of 10.00USD per order when an order is returned due to a bad address; this fee does not include shipping charges to reship the order to a corrected address. Please ensure that your shipping information is accurate before placing your order.

How to arrange your return or exchange:
Please contact or 1-866-363-0578 to obtain approval for your exchange. Returns will NOT be accepted without an RMA (Returned Materials Authorization) number. For faster service, please have the following information on hand when calling for an RMA number: customer name, invoice number, serial number and nature of the problem.
All products returned MUST: be 100 percent complete, contain ALL original boxes and packing materials, have original UPC codes on the manufacturer boxes, contain all manuals, blank warranty cards and other accessories and documentation provided by the manufacturer.
We strongly recommend you fully insure your return shipment in case it is lost or damaged and you use a carrier that can provide you with proof of delivery for your protection.

Cancellation Policy: Once an order has been submitted your credit/debit card will be charged immediately. Our ordering process is streamlined so your order will immediately be sent to processing and then shipping. Due to the high volume of orders we receive we will be unable to cancel an order after submitted. Please order carefully. offers a 30-day exchange policy on defective items for the same item only.

All products are warranted by for 30 days; if any product is found defective within that 30 day period, please contact us for an exchange.

We will be glad to exchange items that do not constitute a health risk.

Please call 1-866-363-0578 Toll Free or e-mail our Returns Department at to obtain a Return Merchandise Authorization (RMA) number before shipping your product. NO returns of any type will be accepted without an RMA number. For faster service, please have the following information on hand when calling for an RMA number: customer name, invoice number, serial number and nature of the problem.

All products returned MUST: be 100 percent complete, contain ALL original boxes and packing materials, have original UPC codes on the manufacturer boxes, contain all manuals, blank warranty cards and other accessories and documentation provided by the manufacturer.

Customer is responsible for shipping charges on returned items. strongly recommends you fully insure your return shipment in case it is lost or damaged and you use a carrier that can provide you with proof of delivery for your protection.

DEFECTIVE items can be returned directly to within 30 days from the invoice date, for replacement with a working unit of the same item only.

NON-DEFECTIVE items can be accepted directly by within 30 days from the invoice date, at's discretion for store credit or exchange. All NON-DEFECTIVE returns are subject to a 20 percent restocking fee.
Alternate Business Names
Boyzshop Extreme Restraints JennasLoveShop XR LLC
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    15251 Pipeline Ln

    Huntington Beach, CA 92649 (888) 469-2376 (714) 907-1030 (866) 363-0578 (714) 847-9292 (714) 847-9013 (714) 907-1040 (714) 847-9012

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Complaint Detail(s)

7/29/2014 Problems with Product/Service | Read Complaint Details

Additional Notes

Complaint: I purchased an item from *********************************, which is the same company as ********************************. Their site populated an old address then would not allow us to correct it. We sent them an email literally 5 min after placing the order and Robert, their "customer service rep" said since we placed the order on the weekend that they do not check their emails prior to shipping Monday morning. Why would they allow this as an option if they do not always get around to checking it prior to shipping? This is unfair business practices to the consumer. He actually advised us to go the the old address and ask the person living their to hold it for us or ask them to ship it to us... I, a woman, is suppose to go to a complete strangers home in a VERY bad part of the town and ask them to hold my ball gag when it comes in? This is by far the worst customer service I have ever experienced. So, in the end they told us there was nothing they would do even though it HAS NOT BEEN SHIPPED YET.... ****** even told us that.

Desired Settlement: Refund of full purchase amount including shipping which is $26.94 or they need to re ship my purchase to the correct address ASAP and provide me a tracking number.

Business Response: We appreciate the opportunity to respond to this complaint. We apologized to the customer and offered multiple ideas to resolve this issue over the phone and by email. The package is still in transit. It seems that even though this order is still in transit, the ideas for resolution were not satisfactory to the customer. Here are the details of the order: The order in question was shipped to the address provided by the customer. At the time of checkout, the customer did not correct their billing or shipping address which can be seen in the attachment (screen shot of the order placed by the customer). The address we shipped the order to, is the address that is saved to the customer’s account and was not changed by the customer at the time of checkout. It is the responsibility of each customer to ensure the accuracy of the information that they provide to us. The customer did place their order on Saturday and emailed us shortly after. Unfortunately, our company is open Monday through Friday so we were unable to respond until Monday. The CSRs (Customer Service Representatives) respond to the emails in the order in which they are received. By the time the CSR was attending to this customer’s email, the order had already been processed, packaged and loaded on the truck. With thousands of packages to process and ship on a daily basis, the shipping department is unable to wait to see if a customer emails or calls us to let us know they gave us an incorrect address. But, when a situation like this occurs, as it does happen, we attempt to aid in whatever ways we can. In cases where it ships via UPS, we can have the package redirected to the new address. USPS does not allow us that same feature. Since this order was shipped via USPS, the CSR asked if the customer was able to go to the old address to see if the resident would be willing to return the package. This is a standard question we ask. We are not aware of good and bad areas around the United States. A simple answer of “no” would have been sufficient. The Customer Service Manager had recommended that the customer submit a change of address with USPS. If this did not work, the CS Manager offered to reship the package for free once it returned. We have been courteous, professional, and have attempted to aid the customer in getting their order while continually receiving threats of chargebacks, complaints to the BBB and leaving negative reviews of our site by the customer. We are still aiding despite the threats. Although there was quite a bit of communication by phone, here is the email string for your review:   From:  ****** ******* < *************************> To: <> Date: 7/12/2014 8:10:08 PM Subject: Accidentally shipped to wrong address! Good People of Extremerestraints, Oh my goodness I just placed an order and it is being shipped to an old address! Please please please cancel this order! Or at least edit the shipping address! I don't live at that address anymore and I don't want something getting my precious order. Please let me know what I need to do to edit or cancel or whatever! The order number is *******! Please help! Freaking out a little bit, ******     From:  "****** *"< **************> To: ************************* Date: 7/14/2014 10:01:39 AM Subject: RE: Accidentally shipped to wrong address!<< #*************#>> Hello ******, Thank you for your email. I am sorry to hear your order is shipping to an old address. Unfortunately we are unable to modify the order as it has already been processed and sent to our shipping department. I do apologize for any inconvenience. Please let us know if you have any additional questions.Thank you. Regards,****** XR, LLC CUSTOMER SERVICEFrom:  ***** *******< *****.*******@*********> To: ****** ******* <***************@*********>,< **************> Date: 7/14/2014 10:29:29 AM Subject: Re: RE: Accidentally shipped to wrong address! My wife placed this order at 11:05pm and at 11:10pm sent you an email asking you to fix the shipping address cause YOUR site populated an address we haven't been at in over 3 years. I find it hard to believe that you cannot fix this mistake.  How do you have 0 customer service for a problem like this?  Your an internet sales site that has to deal with this every once in a while.  I expect either the order to be cancelled or the address fixed.  If you do not, I will dispute the charges with my bank and you will be out the product, I will also be contacting the better business bureau and leaving reviews for your site. This is horrible customer service.  Order number is *******. Thanks.     From:  "OPCSMgr"< **************> To: ************************* CC: *****.*******@********* Date: 7/14/2014 2:53:26 PM Subject: RE: Re: RE: Accidentally shipped to wrong address! << #*************#>> Hello ***** and ******,I apologize for the current issue you are experiencing. I believe I have a solution. Your order is shipping via First Class Mail. Since USPS does not allow us to change the address to a package, we are unable to redirect it to a different address. What has worked in the past (which was also recommended to me by USPS), is for you to enter a change of address with USPS. ************************************************************************************************************Most of the time, they are able to catch your package and will forward it to the new address at no additional cost. If this does not work, and your package returns to us as undeliverable, I will have a note on your order for us to make an exception and reship to you at no additional cost.In regards to the email that was sent to us on Saturday, I see that your order was placed over the weekend and an email was sent by ****** shortly after in an attempt to change the shipping address. It seems that for this order, the billing address was also chosen as the shipping address. If this is no longer your billing or shipping address, I would recommend that you log in to your account and remove that address to avoid any future complications.I apologize that we were unable to make the change to the shipping address for you. Our company is only open Monday through Friday. When the customer service team comes in on Monday morning, they answer the emails in the order in which they were received. By the time ****** was attending to your email, your order had already been processed by our shipping department. At that stage, we are unable to make any changes to an order.Best regards, ***** Customer Service Manager

BBB's Final Determination: Business offered a resolution. Consumer did not pursue further with BBB and the matter was assumed to be resolved

3/10/2014 Advertising/Sales Issues | Read Complaint Details

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Complaint: i called this company to ask about a product listed for 749.95 . this same product was listed on amazon for 449.95. shipped and sold from healthy and active. An ebay seller offer this product for 505.00.. i asked the operator about matching the price that amazon site has since it was coming from healthy and active anyway, and she said , that they dont match prices on amazon or ebay, they dont consider amazon a competitor even though the site says price match guarantee . she also said they dont price match on my product i was buying to begin with. which makes the whole price match banner false advertising then. i sent one email before all this which was never answered thats why i called personally, then sent an email after explaining perhaps to look up competitor in the dictionary .. no response of course. after my amazon experience i complained about, i'm tired of these companies claiming things that they dont follow up with. even has a B.B.B LOGO on they're home page at the bottom.

Desired Settlement: you may do with this problem as you wish, like the amazon issue i had last month and complained to you, i want nothing from this company, i bought it off of an ebay seller instead of them.. but i dont think they should be allowed to advertise price match or the logo of the B.B.B. I purchased the maestro multi-faceted sex machine. you may call on your own to see what response on price matching for this you get . but they should be forced to take down the guarantee logo and b.b.b logo..

Business Response:

Good Afternoon,
In regards to complaint #******* filed with the BBB, here is our response to the issue.
Our price matching policy is that we will price match similar online stores as ours. We will match prices of any valid online competitor’s website store. We do not match prices of online discount sites such as Amazon or eBay regardless of who is selling the item.
In regards to the customer’s complaint that we did not respond to his email, I have reviewed the email and our response. We provided him with the same information that we gave him by phone. In addition, we always have specials and coupons on our website at, so we offered him the 25% off coupon that we had running for Valentine’s Day. Here is the customer’s email and our response:
Customer’s email sent on 2/13/14: “on the [item}...  its listed at 749.95 but i can get by you through amazon for 449.95. shipped by you..  will there be any way to match that ..  I DONT DEAL WITH AMAZON ..period. i 've even cancelled my account..  i can go to ebay to get this for 50.00 more but i thought i 'd  write and ask you first..   who gets my money.. you or an  ebay seller .?449.95 or  ebay for 505.00 thanks for you time”
Our response sent on 2/13/14: “Hello [Customer], Thank you for your e-mail. As per our phone conversation earlier, we do not price match with Amazon. We are a third party seller. For item [product #] for $749.00, I can provide you with a coupon code for 25% off, if you act now before coupon code expires on 2/17/14. Coupon code is **********, with the discount of $187.25.”
Since the best possible deal was on Amazon and the customer refused to purchase the item from Amazon, we attempted to work with the customer on offering him the best possible deal from our website.
Customer Service Manager

BBB's Final Determination: Business offered a resolution. Consumer did not pursue further with BBB and the matter was assumed to be resolved

3/3/2014 Problems with Product/Service | Read Complaint Details

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Complaint: I recently placed an order for about $35 worth of merchandise from a company that goes by Extreme Restraints, Healthy&Active, or XR LCC. I double checked the return policy and my total very carefully, because between my boyfriend's student loans and the fact that we are about to move from Seattle to NY, money is very tight, and I was getting myself a birthday present but was not able to spend much money.I received my order, but somehow extra products had been added, turning my total to over $200. I assumed this was an honest mistake or perhaps a site error, and immediately emailed the company and volunteered to send the mistaken products back in their original airtight packaging. I also requested a refund once I realized that $200 I did not authorize had been charged to my debit card. I was perfectly polite because I assumed it was a simple mistake that could be fixed.I have since emailed the company several times, and today I also called customer service, because the only response I have been able to get is a link to their return policy and the statement that I must have ordered these products. No one that I spoke to was even willing to consider or look into the idea of website error, much less that the company might have made a mistake. They were unwilling to even consider accepting the items back or offering me a refund for the items I did not order. These products were not and had never been in my online shopping cart, nor did I open them or use them, nor did I consent to pay for them. I have notified my bank but am not sure what else to do except try to make sure others are aware and are not taken advantage of by this company. I have also notified the company via email, clearly but politely, that I will be pursuing this error and reviewing their poor customer service.Thank you!

Desired Settlement: I would be entirely satisfied if the money for the items I did not order were returned to me, and if I am reassured that this error will be looked into so that it does not happen to other customers. I would still be happy to return the items that were sent to me that I did not order or authorize payment for.

Business Response:

Good Afternoon,
In regards to complaint #******* filed with the BBB, here is how the issue was handled.
Our company was informed that a customer had left negative reviews about our company on a social media website. The customer stated on social media that we stole from her. She said she ordered $35 worth of products and our company added three additional items, totaling over $200. Knowing that we have a streamlined electronic ordering system that takes the orders from the website and generates an order form in our warehouse, which is fulfilled and shipped, we wanted to research this further. We also know that each order form is emailed to the customer after their purchase so they can see the items they ordered and the total price in case they did not note it when they completed their purchase online.
While researching the issue, we had found that the customer had sent our customer service an email after receiving the order (7 days after shipment) and complained that we added items to her order and charged her over $200. Our customer service department responded to her explaining the ordering system and our terms and conditions policy, which, must be acknowledged by every customer when making a purchase. Specifically to this issue, our company does not issue refunds as all sales are final and is stated on our website. Additionally, our company does not allow sex toys to be returned as we take the health of our customers and employees seriously. We guarantee that all of our products are new and unused.
An email was sent to the customer on 2/7/14 regarding her post online. In the email, we addressed her complaint about our website and ordering system, gave a possible reason why she may have not received her order confirmation (she had provided an old non-working email), and explained our refund policy, which we were going to make an exception due to the nature of the complaint.
We received a response from the customer on 2/9/14. She was glad that we were willing to work with her on the issue. She stated that she was going to retract the letter she filed with the BBB as well as the chargeback she had started to file with her credit card company. Here was her response: I can't tell you how much I appreciate your email, and hearing from someone who is willing to treat this like a problem. I really, really appreciate your being willing to respond to me! I did file a letter with the Better Business Bureau out of San Diego, which I would be more than happy to retract, and I had filled out but not yet sent in a dispute claim with my credit card company (I was hoping I wouldn't have to, and am very glad that is the case).
Our final email response to the customer on 2/10/14 stated that she had been refunded the price for the three products and the shipping difference. We also informed her she could keep the merchandise since we do not accept sex products back into the warehouse.
Customer Service Manager

Consumer Response:

Better Business Bureau:

I have reviewed the response made by the business in reference to complaint ID *******, and find that this resolution would be satisfactory to me.  I will wait for the business to perform this action and, if it does, will consider this complaint resolved.

I do see that the business is unhappy that I posted negative reviews for them on review sites online, and I would like to add that I did mention several times via email that I would feel the need to do so if they were not willing to even discuss options with me about the unauthorized charges on my credit card, and since I got no response until after I had put a complaint in with the BBB, I did post comments online describing my negative experience.

Thank you so much for your help in this, as I do not think I would ever have gotten a positive response from the company without the help of the Better Business Bureau, and would have continued to be ignored.


***** *******

BBB's Final Determination: Consumer accepted resolution offered by the business.

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