Discussing Financial Issues Is a Vital Task Before Marriage, Says Better Business Bureau

July 10, 2013

CHICAGO, IL – July 9, 2013 – Summer is the most popular season for weddings and is an exciting time for newlyweds. However, there is more to a marriage than the wedding and the honeymoon. Couples need to be committed to each other not only emotionally, but also financially. The Better Business Bureau advises newlyweds to discuss their financial goals and issues before walking down the aisle.

“Discussing finances isn’t the most romantic part of a marriage but it’s something that needs to be done,” said Steve J. Bernas, president and CEO of the Better Business Bureau serving Chicago and Northern Illinois. “By setting a budget and discussing financial situations, new couples will be able to save for the future and have money for any emergencies that come up.”

The BBB offers the following advice for newlyweds planning their financial future together:

  • Discuss your financial history. After marriage, any personal debt becomes “our debt.” It is important to sit down early when marriage is being discussed to discover what outstanding obligations exist on both sides. These could include car loans, school loans and credit card debt. Review your credit reports to get a better idea what both of you are bringing to the marriage.

  • Build a budget. After you’ve gotten a grasp on your debt, it’s time to build a monthly budget. Look at your monthly bills to create a realistic picture of how you spend. Discuss your long term goals—such as buying a house or car and having kids. Figure out how much money to set aside each month to reach those goals.

  • Learn to budget as a team. In order to avoid confusion, one person should be assigned to pay the bills every month. This doesn’t mean that the other person takes a back seat role in managing the finances. Have a discussion at least every month about your financial progress in order to map your path and get rid of any bad spending habits.

  • Plan for emergencies. Many young couples fail to save money to get them through hard times such as health problems and unexpected unemployment. Experts recommend you set aside three to six months of salary in a rainy day fund—ideally an interest-bearing account that can be easily accessed.

  • Save for the future. Retirement may seem like a long way off to newlyweds, but setting aside money now means reaping big rewards later on. Take advantage of both employers’ retirement matching programs—if available—or set up individual retirement accounts. For more tips on saving for retirement, visit www.finra.org

  • Make a vow to be savvy consumers. Many families have had their life savings decimated after becoming a victim to fraud or identity theft. Check out your BBB’s website to find trustworthy businesses, get educated on the red flags of fraud and learn how to protect your identity.

For more advice on managing your money, visit www.bbb.org/us/consumer-tips-finance/


As a private, non-profit organization, the purpose of the Better Business Bureau is to promote an ethical marketplace. BBBs help resolve buyer/seller complaints by means of conciliation, mediation and arbitration. BBBs also review advertising claims, online business practices and charitable organizations. BBBs develop and issue reports on businesses and nonprofit organizations and encourage people to check out a company or charity before making a purchase or donation.