BBB Warns: Beware of Online Dating Scams this Valentine’s Day

February 05, 2014

Are you looking for love this Valentine’s Day? Millions use online dating sites to meet people. Unfortunately, scam artists know this, and take advantage of those who are looking to start relationships.

Con artists create fake profiles to build online relationships, and eventually convince victims to send money in the name of love. Better Business Bureau offers these tips to help you recognize when the relationship may not be what you think – especially when your Sweetheart:

· Wants to leave the dating site immediately and use personal email or telephone.

· Claims love within moments of meeting you online.

· Claims to be from the U.S. but is traveling overseas.

· Plans to visit, but is prevented by some sort of emergency or deal gone bad.

Here are a few things that people can do to help prevent being scammed on dating sites. Don’t wire money to cover:

· Travel

· Medical emergencies

· Hotel bills

· Hospital bills for a child or other relative

· Visas or other official documents

Don’t send money to tide someone over after a financial setback, and don’t do anyone a favor by making an online purchase or forwarding a package to another country. One request leads to another, and delays and disappointments will follow. In the end, the money will be gone along with the person you thought you knew.

You can report online relationship scams to the FBI’s IC3 at, to your State Attorney General, and to the Better Business Bureau.

For more information go to or call 1-800-388-2222.